Over... Again

I meet a guy I'm not to sure about in the first place... but he keeps talking like he wants a lasting thing.. I buy into it..as usual much to fast, and boom.Its over already.Its all him.I don't know what its like to be fucking crazy.I get to live that through others . He sends me this long text to break it off...

I'm sorry 4 bein a coward but thats hu I am my life is so fucked up right now & Im in no way shape or form 2 be a boyfriend to u or any 1

U R Awsum & deserve a good person. I m a piece of shit hu cantlove u or even like u when I dont even love or like myself. Im not gonna string u along any longer u dont deserve that.Upon completion of my 4th step I'm not only fucked up from that I have an ex wife who is trying to destroy me & my kids as well as an x girlfriend wit dat kid just sent me proof of a baby that i dont wanna b part of & dont know what to do.Im sorry for startn this wit u I had no rite 2 do this 2 u.please turn the other way and run like hell & dont look back.im truely sorry for puttin u thru this and endin it in such a cowardly way.I'm truly sorry for hurtin u believe me im hurtin so bad u just dont know.Goodbye, Kevin

I tried to type it word for word but it was such a mess..I am not even sure I didn't get totally played but that is my evil paranoia.The idea that someone couldve been that into me and got scared because they actually cared is just to far fetched..played is easier.No I dont think I was.It was sincere.He's a mess.I hope he gets it together,for his own sake.

Melanie told me Chris said I should go over to the other side of the fence...I told her it didnt matter to me man or woman..as long as someone loved me.She said I was breaking her heart...I miss Rene badly right now.I want to cry... my miserable luck.

My freakin out over it all even got Jessica to call me this afternoon.And my buddy Joe Joe to message me.I need to go to bed and sleep now..

The Boyfriend

Kevin...I think this could totally be it... it feels so different.He is scared to death tho... and i am too to some extent.I am not afraid of my emotions. I'm afraid of my lack of them.

The Day After The Night Before

Ahh... Angelia came down.I'm actually surprised she did.I was even more surprised that she came on Friday and was here well before dark.

We stayed in except for going to lunch. We didn't get hammered hanging out at home at all,and we got up relatively early and got on with things.

I must say I am mortified at the amount of crap in the basement.There is so much bullshit down there it is not even the least bit amusing to me how long its going to take to get it cleaned up to be able to use it.We removed at least 12 bags of just garbage and about 4 boxes full of cardboard.I am going to talk the old man into getting a dumpster out here if it kills me. I'm going to have him call the trash company again and find out the rates for having one so we can coordinate a dump party.All the stuff we took out was all done with in about a 2 hour period and no more could be done with out taking over the driveway. It doesn't help that we did this over a holiday weekend.Cant do any trash stuff till Monday night.

Had a great night out.We went to see KORUPT at Crossroads with Joe and Anna, Melanie came out and I ended up meeting a guy.A my type of guy. In more ways than I care to think about.We will just have to see how that goes. His name is Kevin.

Tomorrow

I have been ridiculously busy all weekend...every weekend for months I swear.I am not looking forward to this week. I am not looking forward to next weekend.Angelias is coming to help me clean and I am soooo afraid it will be like every weekend we get together.A drunk festival.Not that that isnt fun...but DAMN!!!! LOL

So, being as that I've not had a very good time lately with the dating thing...I came up with a thought.I see these guys that are my age and they look so old. Then I look at pics of my classmates on Facebook and wonder.. is it just because I recognise them from being teenagers that they dont look old to me? And I see myself and wonder the same... how do people really see me?It freaks me out the old thing.I know theres nothing I can do about it but damn....

Memorial Day Weekend

This is what I get for not making a plan..home.Home for the whole weekend. Met 2 guys,one whom I "talked " to for months..total dud.The other coulda worked out but..I think he was only looking to hook up, which is fine since he didn't make that a known fact before hand. I can handle guys who have game. I get tired of ones who want to make sure they are going to get it. Those are the ones who turn out to just suck!!

Gym this afternoon and the Boxing thing this evening. DETERMINED

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